The lovely La La Vazquez will grace the cover of the April issue of Latina Magazine. In the issue the Puerto Rican television personality/ MTV VJ discusses her career and relationship with NBA star and fiancÃ© Carmelo Anthony of the Denver Nuggets.
La La also wrote a great essay on Latina.com titled “Yo Soy Boricua” that I believe many of us can relate to. In the essay she touches on the diversity of our culture and the reactions she has faced when people discover she is a “Black Latina”. Here is the essay:
A lot of people donâ€™t realize that Iâ€™m Latina, which is fine. One thing about being Latina is that there isnâ€™t one look that comes with the territory. I donâ€™t expect people to know my cultural background just by glancing at me. I do, however, expect that when I tell people my family is from Puerto Rico, that I will be believed and not accused of trying to be something that Iâ€™m not. It usually goes something like this: a person having a conversation with me discovers one way or another that Iâ€™m Puerto Rican and fluent in Spanish. That person then expresses their shock over these realizations for any number of reasonsâ€”common responses are, “You donâ€™t look Latina” and “I thought you were black!” I never said I wasnâ€™t black. And since when does being black and being Latina have to be mutually exclusive?
In my experience, people tend to have an uninformed and rather narrow view of what it means to be Puerto Rican. For me, not looking like some peopleâ€™s idea of a typical Latina has been challenging and often painful. I constantly find myself trying to justify who I am, and why should I? Iâ€™m proud of my heritage and my family. Both of my parents are from Puerto Rico. They raised two kids in Brooklyn and later in New Jersey, where we ate arroz con gandules and pasteles and listened to salsa music. I feel just as at home in Puerto Rico, where I still have tons of family, including aunts, uncles and cousins. Puerto Rico is in my blood. And that has nothing to do with the color of my skin.
Iâ€™m not angry with anyone who doesnâ€™t understand the complexities of race and culture. And Iâ€™m also not interested in having long, drawn out conversations about how itâ€™s possible for me to look like this and speak Spanish. In fact, sometimes I make it a point not to mention my parentsâ€™ birthplace because I donâ€™t always feel like having the inevitable discussion that follows. Instead, I let people look at me and come to their own conclusions. As I start to get my feet wet in Hollywood, I already know that there are certain parts I wonâ€™t even be considered for. The character can be Puerto Rican and speak Spanish just like me, but Hollywood defines Latina as Jennifer Lopez and Sofia Vergara. As beautiful as they are, weâ€™re not all one race in Latin America. But I donâ€™t go to auditions so that I can give history lessons to film executives. Iâ€™d rather skip the entire process.
Iâ€™m raising my son to understand who he is, and itâ€™s my hope that heâ€™ll never let others define him. It reflects poorly on us when we donâ€™t educate ourselves about the rest of the world and what it looks like. I encourage people who are interested to learn more, do research and ask informed questions. If youâ€™re lucky enough to visit various countries in Latin America, youâ€™ll be baffled to see the blackest of the black and the lightest of the light living together. And I dare you to ask one of them to prove their latinidad.
Well said, La La!
I am also happy to note that La La is officially a CaliRican, she and fiancÃ© Carmelo Anthony (who is half Puerto Rican and half African American) have just purchased a beautiful home in Los Angeles!
Check out some photos of La La, fiancÃ© Carmelo Anthony, their handsome son Kiyan and their new casa in Los Angeles!
Home Photos Source: TMZ